How to Improve Your Sexual Performance With an Escort

Your Amsterdam escort walks into the room with effortless confidence, curves in all the right places, and eyes that let you know she already understands exactly what kind of night you want. The first kiss, the brush of her fingers, the way she moves on top of you – everything about her is tuned for pleasure. Which is exactly why it’s suddenly very easy to get a little too excited.

If your arousal spikes too fast, and you find yourself finishing far earlier than planned, you’re not alone. There are ways to take control before, during, and even after the action starts. The escorts Amsterdam clients return to again and again are beautiful, confident, and brilliant at putting you at ease.

From physical techniques to clever preparation, this guide breaks down how to improve your game with an escort.

Key Takeaways:

• Staying present, breathing deeply, and letting your escort guide the pace helps reduce pressure.
• Preparing properly with rest, hydration and grooming boosts confidence and sexual performance.
• Techniques like edging and position control can significantly delay climax and heighten pleasure.
• Communication with your escort enhances the experience and allows for personalised guidance.

Get your head in the right place

Being naked with a beautiful woman who clearly knows what she’s doing can feel thrilling, but the pressure to perform can creep in fast. When you start worrying about how long you’ll last, the sex becomes something to manage rather than something to enjoy – and that’s when things can go downhill quickly.

Stay in the moment. Focus on how she feels, how she tastes, the way she moans. Your body reacts better when you’re connected rather than trying to control every second. Breathe deeply, especially when you feel yourself climbing too fast. Slow, steady breaths keep your heart rate in check and help you stay calm even when the sex is intense.

“I like it when someone slows everything down and makes eye contact. Everything becomes hotter when there’s real focus.” – Veronica

Want to enjoy a slow session with Veronica? See her profile and book her today. 

Prep matters more than you think

What you do in the hours before your booking can make a huge difference to how long you last. Skip the drinks as alcohol dulls sensation and affects stamina. The same goes for heavy food; it’s hard to find the energy on a full stomach.

Try taking a warm shower before she arrives. It relaxes the muscles, clears your head, and gets the blood flowing in the right places. Grooming matters too – not because she’s judging your chest hair, but because you’ll feel sharper and more confident when you’ve made an effort.

And mentally, remember you’ve invited a gorgeous professional over to show you a good time, not to test your endurance.

“Confidence makes everything easier. Clean body, fresh sheets, clear mind – that’s when the sex starts off right.” – Poli

Book Poli and she’ll make you feel at ease and confident right from the start. 

For more sex tips from our escorts, read this blog where our escorts reveal what turns them on the most. 

Use the time wisely

If you stop thinking about sex as a race towards penetration, you’ll last longer. Spend time enjoying her body, letting her tease you with her tongue or her fingertips. Escorts know exactly how to get you worked up without rushing to the finish line.

Let her take the lead. And if you feel things getting too intense too fast, shift gears. By changing positions or easing the pace, this variety helps prevent that sudden rush to orgasm.

“I love slowing things down. If I kiss just the right spot and then pull back, it drives the anticipation through the roof.” – Andrea

View Andrea’s profile and discover how she can prolong your pleasure. 

Train yourself to last longer

Edging isn’t just something you can do solo. If you’ve booked more than an hour, tell your escort you want to play a little longer before you come. Let her build you up with her mouth or body until you’re right on the edge – then stop. Breathe. Let the feeling settle. Then go again. It’s intense, and when you finally do come, it hits harder.

You can also try the squeeze technique. Just before climax, squeeze the head or base of your penis to reduce stimulation. It’s subtle and effective.

“That kind of control turns into the best kind of sex – deeper, stronger, and way more satisfying.” – Lisa

Take a look at Lisa’s profile and book her to learn more about the tips she can give you. 

If you’re new to booking escorts, see our guide on the mistakes clients should avoid for a much more satisfying experience. 

Position yourself for success

Some positions make it harder to last, especially the ones where you’re going deep and fast. Start with positions that give you more control – spooning is a good one, as is missionary with her legs slightly closed.

Save doggy, standing, or anything more vigorous for later, when you’ve relaxed and found your rhythm. And even then, controlling the pace and watching her react all help keep things steady.

“I can always tell when someone’s about to come too soon. Changing the position or slowing down for a minute usually works wonders.” – Eva

Visit Lisa’s profile and book your session with her today. 

If you want to explore more, read this blog where our escorts discuss the secrets to better sex.

Boost your physical health

If you’re out of shape, tired, or constantly stressed, it shows. Cardio improves stamina, and strength training boosts testosterone. 

What you eat matters too. Foods rich in zinc and healthy fats improve blood flow and hormone levels. 

“I can always tell when someone takes care of their body. The sex is better, and they recover faster between rounds.” – Bibi

Want to see more from Bibi? Check out her profile here. 

Escorts can help you improve

Most escorts have seen it all and know exactly how to help you through it.

Use the time with your escort to figure out what works for you. If something helps you stay hard or last longer or if you want to try slowing it down, say so. The more communication, the better the results.

“Sometimes all it takes is a small adjustment. If you say what you want, it always makes the sex better.” – Alexandra

Book Alexandra now for an encounter that is tailored to your wishes. 

Ready to Last Longer? Book Now

There’s no better way to get better in bed than by having great sex with someone who knows exactly how to bring out your best.

Why not try booking a longer session? It lets you enjoy every stage, from kisses to climax, without rushing or second-guessing yourself. Contact us now to book your favourite escort and we’ll send a beautiful girl to you for an outcall.

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