Secrets to Better Sex from Our Escorts

Let’s be honest – everyone wants to be amazing in bed. But great sex isn’t just about instinct; it’s about understanding what turns someone on, what makes them melt, and how to keep them coming back for more. Feeling like you’ve let your partner down can be a crushing feeling. To avoid that happening, some advice from an expert is the best way to improve your skills.

Whether you want to impress your escort or improve your own relationship, these are the top tips from women who have made a living out of sex. After meeting with diverse clientele, men, women, couples, and having honed their erotic skills, no one else is in a better position to give advice. Let these experts guide you with their wisdom, hard earned from years of experience.

1-Prioritise Communication

Having an open dialogue about your desires, preferences and boundaries is fundamental for a satisfying sexual experience. Knowing what each of you likes and doesn’t like means that you can understand each other and create the best possible experience for each other.

Whatever kind of taboo desires you may be holding on to, let them out. Take it from Andra, one of our escorts, who says “It’s like sharing your secret recipe for pleasure.” You may end up discovering that you have the same kink or fetish.

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Saying a sentence like “I’ve been thinking about trying something new together. How do you feel about that?” can open up the doors to something magical. Make sure it’s reciprocal. Show them you care by saying “”I really enjoy when you touch me here. What feels good for you?” Make sure to communicate during your encounter too. Noticing reactions and adjusting accordingly will help ensure your partner stays satisfied.

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2-Focus on Foreplay

Foreplay builds arousal, increases anticipation and leads to a more fulfilling night. It doesn’t have to be boring. Prolonged kissing or exploring each other’s erogenous zones can help to get the party started. Another escort, Ida, also suggests “don’t underestimate the power of erotic massages. With some candles and aromatic oils, it can really help to set the mood.”

Why not start with Lightly tracing your fingertips along your partner’s spine or whispering your fantasies in their ear to build excitement? Ida stresses the importance of foreplay, saying “”Foreplay isn’t just the appetizer; it’s the main course. Take your time and savour every moment.”

3-Experiment with New Positions

Bored with the same old missionary over and over? Even if you’re not your partner or escort might be. Adding a touch of variety can prevent routines from becoming monotonous and can lead to discovering new pleasures. In experimenting, you could discover a new favourite. Brianna says “”Switching things up can add a spark. It’s like finding a new favourite dish at your go-to restaurant.”

What kind of positions to try will depend on what kind of experience you want to have. Positions like the ‘spooning’ position can provide for better intimacy or ‘cowgirl’ for a change in dynamics.

Brianna also suggests “use pillows to support new angles.” This can make it more comfortable for both of you and allow for deeper, more satisfying penetration.

4-Incorporate Sensory Play

Mihaela says “”playing with senses adds layers to intimacy. It’s like turning a simple melody into a symphony.” And she’s not wrong. Engaging multiple senses can intensify pleasure and open you up to new sensations.

Try adding scented candles and soft music in the bedroom. Using props like feeding each other fruit or using feathers to tease can also help to focus on all of your senses.

Mihaela divulges that she once “brought a silk scarf to a session. The simple act of blindfolding heightened his senses, turning familiar touches into new sensations.” Thinking about what other kinky activities you can do with an escort? Take a look at our page on BDSM escorts in Amsterdam.

5-Practice Mindfulness

Being present lets you truly enjoy the experience. When you’re paying to spend only a few short hours with our amazing escorts, you want to soak up the experience as much as possible. Being mindful can enhance your connection and help you stay in the moment.

To practice mindfulness, techniques like synchronised breathing can help you to feel closer to your partner. It’s also a technique used in tantra massage, if you’d like to experience this with an escort who is an expert in these ancient, relaxation methods. “When I do this with clients,” says Jesy, “it creates an intense bond, making the experience unforgettable.”

6-Use Lubrication

Using lubricant can help to increase comfort for your partner or escort and help to increase your pleasure as well as theirs. Try exploring different water or silicone-based options to find the one that suits you both.. This tip is especially important if you are trying anal sex. As any of our A-level escorts will tell you, it is essential.

Adding this to foreplay can also help to increase the sensations, making you more turned on. As Bianca recalls “”A client was hesitant about using lube, thinking it unnecessary. After trying it, he remarked on the difference it made. Sometimes, a little slickness goes a long way.”

7-Prioritise Aftercare

Post-intimacy care strengthens emotional bonds and helps you to connect with each other after intimacy. Activities like cuddling, sharing a warm bath, or simply talking about the experience can help to make you and your partner feel valued.

Nicky emphasises the importance of it, saying “Aftercare is the cherry on top. It’s the little things after that make the whole experience sweeter.”

Particularly if you have been enjoying some BDSM or dominant and submissive roleplay, aftercare lets you check in. You can return back to your normal emotional and physical self after an intense session. Applying lotion to any areas sore after impact or a gentle massage can help you to relax after intense sessions like these.

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8-Build Emotional Connection

Creating a genuine emotional bond can help to deepen physical connection. Sharing some quality time with your partner beforehand can help to increase your connection for an even more intense sexual encounter.

You can build this connection with an escort as well. We have GFE escorts who will treat you like a real girlfriend. This can involve kissing, sharing heartfelt conversations or just enjoying her companionship. Sharing a meal together before can also help to build your connection. Learn more about our dinner date escorts here.

9-Maintain Physical Fitness

Being in good health can also help to improve your sexual performance. With an increased stamina, you can go for longer and hold more ambitious positions for a more fun and enjoyable time. Make sure to keep up with regular exercise and maintain a balanced diet to stay on top form. As our escort Bibi notes: “Keeping fit isn’t just for looks; it means we can have more fun, for longer!”

Improve Your Bedroom Game In Your Next Escort Booking

Now you have all the tips you need from the experts to increase your confidence in the bedroom. Incorporate these insights to help enrich and enliven your next encounter either with your own partner or one of our escorts.

Our high class Amsterdam escorts are eager to provide a safe and enjoyable environment to explore these tips further. Browse through their profiles now to find the ideal girl for you and enjoy your next booking to the max.