How Long Should You Book an Escort For?
Choosing the perfect match from our lineup of Amsterdam escorts is the easy part… what most clients struggle with is choosing the right booking duration.
What you need to ask yourself is this: what are you actually planning to do? If you book the wrong duration for the type of experience you want, you’ll either feel rushed… or you’ll pay for time you didn’t need.
Here’s how to decide properly.
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When 1 Hour Makes the Most Sense (€200)
A one-hour booking works best when you know exactly what you’re after.
If you’re staying in a hotel in central Amsterdam, want a direct and private encounter, and are not in need of long conversation or build-up, one hour is perfectly reasonable. It suits experienced clients who are comfortable with escort bookings and don’t require time to settle in. It’s also perfect for the likes of businessmen who might be short on time, or those just passing through the area.
Where one-hour bookings tend to struggle are with any services that might benefit from long foreplay, multiple activities, or complex fantasies. Once introductions, payment procedure, and basic conversation happen, clients are often surprised by how quickly the clock moves. That’s why shorter bookings are best for simpler services with the likes of A-level and oral sex escorts.
If, however, you tend to warm up slowly, you can always choose a 1-hour booking for €200.
How Long For Erotic, Tantra & B2B Massage?
Erotic, Tantra and B2B massage are listed as additional services on our rates page, starting from €180 for one hour. Now, technically, one hour works, but if you’re a first-timer booking, you need to understand how these sessions are normally structured.
A proper erotic or Tantra massage is rarely just 30 minutes of oil followed by a quick transition. There’s a lot of preparation, a lot of oil application, plenty of full body work, and of course, slow build-up. If you’re booking it because you enjoy the sensual side of things (not just the ending), compressing it into sixty minutes limits how much can realistically happen.
By the time you’ve greeted each other, discussed preferences, and settled in, you’ve already used part of your hour. That’s why many clients who choose massage opt for 90 minutes or two hours. It allows the body-to-body element to flow properly instead of feeling like it needs to speed up.
How Long For BDSM & Fetish Services?
Experiences with our BDSM escorts are listed separately on our rates page at €300 for one hour, and this is where duration becomes even more important.
Unlike standard bookings, BDSM sessions require discussion before anything physical happens. Limits need to be clarified, safe words confirmed, and expectations aligned… which, as you can guess, takes time.
Then there’s setup and positioning (especially for bondage), props, the right clothing, and establishing the power dynamic. If you rush these stages, the experience can risk feeling a little disorganised. And after intense play, aftercare is very important, especially for first-time clients exploring kink. Jumping straight from intensity to goodbye because the hour is up doesn’t create a good experience.
For light domination or simple roleplay, one hour can work if you’re experienced. For anything more involved – such as restraints or sessions involving our strapon escorts – two hours should be considered the realistic minimum.
The same applies to detailed scenarios with roleplay escorts. If there’s a specific setup involved (costumes, characters, staged scenarios, etc.), that preparation eats into your time. Booking longer ensures the fantasy doesn’t end just as it becomes convincing.
Girlfriend Experience & Dinner Dates
If you’re booking companionship for dinner, drinks, or a genuine GFE escort experience, one hour simply doesn’t make sense.
A proper dinner in Amsterdam can easily take 90 minutes. Add travel between locations, returning to your hotel, settling in privately, and you’re already beyond a two-hour window.
And that’s before you factor in what makes GFE different from a direct booking: lots of deep conversation, flirting, small physical cues, and gradual escalation. The entire point, after all, is that it feels natural. So, if you want to meet for dinner and then continue privately afterwards, two hours will feel a little tight. Four hours or more gives you something that mirrors a real date.
Duo Escorts, Threesomes & Couples Bookings (€400+)
With duo escort bookings (listed at €400 per hour on our rates page), introductions take longer. There are three people adjusting to the dynamic, after all, not just two. Conversation naturally lasts longer before anything physical begins.
Once things progress, positioning and pacing also require more coordination. Switching focus between partners, allowing everyone to stay involved, and avoiding someone being sidelined all take time. Trying to fit that into one hour often results in the experience feeling rushed just as it’s becoming comfortable.
Two hours is a far more realistic minimum for duo bookings. The same applies to couple sessions or MM threesomes. The more participants involved, the more time is needed for the interaction to feel balanced rather than hurried.
Party Escorts, Events & Canal Cruises
If you’re hiring an escort for a birthday, corporate event, club night, private party, or canal cruise, one hour simply isn’t workable.
Unlike private hotel bookings, these situations involve logistics. Arrival time. Introductions. Socialising with others. Possibly moving between venues. Even something as simple as waiting for drinks or a table eats into the clock.
For example, a canal cruise alone typically runs over four hours. If you book only 2 hours or so, you should rememebr that you may be spending some time just boarding and settling in.
Party escort bookings are usually two to four hours minimum, and often longer, mainly because public settings naturally move more slowly than private ones. If you want your escort to genuinely enjoy the evening with you – rather than watching the time – book accordingly.
Overnights & Virgin Experiences
Overnight escort bookings are structured very differently from hourly sessions and remove the pressure of a fixed endpoint.
If you’re inexperienced, nervous, or booking your first ever intimate encounter, longer bookings make a noticeable difference. There’s no countdown and no sense that everything must happen immediately.
For virgin experiences in particular, rushing rarely leads to a positive memory, and so allowing an evening to unfold naturally creates a far more comfortable environment.
Overnights are also popular with travelling clients who prefer continuity. Instead of booking two separate short visits across different days, one overnight often feels smoother and more relaxed.
So What Should You Book?
If you know exactly what you want and prefer something focused and private, one hour at €200 can be sufficient. If, however, you want room to relax, talk properly, and avoid watching the clock, 90 minutes or two hours (€300-€400) is usually the smarter choice. And for dinner dates, public outings, BDSM, duo experiences (€400+), or a girlfriend-style evening that continues naturally, book longer.
If you’re unsure, speak to our team before confirming your booking. We’ll advise honestly based on your plans, location, and chosen service. Otherwise, browse our full gallery of the hottest escorts Amsterdam has to offer and place your booking today.